Proposing is one of life’s most thrilling and daunting milestones. If you’re planning to pop the question, it can also be overwhelming. Our comprehensive guide will help prepare you to create a memorable, romantic proposal, that is uniquely yours. We’ll cover everything from choosing the right engagement ring to selecting the perfect location, and even how to handle the nerves. So before you get down on one knee, let’s dive in.
From discussing your future to talking ring styles, it’s important that you and your partner are on the same page. When it comes to popping the question, do they love the big, flashy, public proposals? Or is their style more intimate? Do they want friends and family there or should it be just the two of you?
If going for a surprise, maybe watch some choice reality TV shows or scroll through some insta accounts and gauge your partners reactions.
Believeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee me, we know how hard this one is! But we are here to help. From finding out their ring size to selecting the perfect setting, and of course, choosing that all-important diamond, we’ve got you covered.
Whether you are choosing the ring together or you are keeping it a surprise, having the right size ahead of time can make this process a whole lot easier. You have a few options: get sized at a professional jeweler, try one of the at-home methods using a string and an existing ring, or use various tools available. At James Allen, our Virtual Ring Sizer can help you determine your size online for free! Or you can order our free ring sizer that will be delivered to your home.
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From metal color to setting choices, there is a lot to consider when it comes to women’s engagement rings. Talk to your partner and her friends and family, take a peek at her jewelry box, and start to pay attention to what she currently wears. Does she prefer yellow gold? Does she love vintage, bold, or minimalist style?
Not sure? Can’t go wrong with a timeless solitaire or a perfect pavé. These settings are always in style, universally flattering, and incredibly popular. Whether you want something classic or trending, there are a lot of options, so start by getting the 411 on her ring style.
Whether you are going for a traditional colorless diamond or are choosing a gemstone engagement ring, the main things to keep in mind are your budget and the 4Cs: cut, color, clarity, and carat weight. You want to make an informed, responsible choice. Have questions? Our experts are available 24/7 to help!
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Whether you want to design the ring yourself or simply add a personal engraving, customization can give this all-important ring the meaningful touch you’ve been looking for.
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Timing is everything but also location location location! You have the “who,” you have the “what,” and now you need the “when” and “where.” From where you had your first date to a romantic sunset on the beach, a destination proposal like the famous Eiffel Tower, or keeping it close to home, there are so many options!
Make sure you choose a time that works for both of you and a place that has personal significance. After all, this will only (hopefully) happen once!
Whether it’s inviting friends and family, hiring a photographer, getting a permit, or just making sure she isn’t busy that day, there are a lot of logistics when proposing, so don’t forget the details! And make sure to have a backup plan, you never know when the weather will strike or a public venue may have a problem.
Keep it heartfelt, this is an important moment so you want to be genuine. Jokes are OK but within reason, this isn’t a roast after all. And remember to practice, whether you write it down or speak off the cuff, it is good to have an idea of what you want to say. Those nerves can sneak up on you! Practice may not make perfect but in this case, it will make you prepared.
Need some help getting started? Talk about why you love your partner, what you are excited for in the future, or special things from your journey together so far.
You’ve now heard the greatest three letters in the English language! Make sure to savor the moment. Whether you plan an “impromptu” party or have a champagne toast for two, this is a moment you won’t want to forget.
Time to share the good news! This is a big announcement so do it together. Many couples prefer to share the news privately with close family and friends before posting that infamous ring selfie.
This is a moment the two of you will remember for the rest of your lives. So take your time, make thoughtful choices, and remember that this is about your love story. And of course, enjoy this once-in-a-lifetime moment!
If you are keeping the ring a surprise, consider your budget and your partner’s style. Do they prefer modern or classic? Traditional or maybe a twist on tradition? Consider talking to their friends and family to get some help on finding the perfect ring. And don’t forget about customization to make it extra meaningful.
Consider unexpected locations or experiences. From scavenger hunts to sky diving, the possibilities are endless. Is there a hobby you both enjoy? Make sure you choose something that is significant to both of you, because unique is great, but meaningful is important.
If you want to make the moment (even more) romantic, consider traditional options like a sunset beach proposal, a private rooftop experience with incredible views, or even hiring a musician to play your partner’s favorite song. Cover the room in her favorite flower or go for a quick getaway at a romantic cottage. The possibilities are endless, so make sure it reflects the two of you and your love story.
If it is culturally applicable, ask your partner’s family for their blessing and make sure it is a moment your partner will love. Don’t go for grandeur if they are a more private person. Always have a back up plan, and make sure everything from permits to photographers are secured.
A memorable proposal does not have to be expensive. A beautiful hiking trail, romantic beaches, or a cozy spot in the park can all be incredible proposal spots. Even your home! Decorating your home to transform it into a proposal paradise is another great, budget-friendly option.
Going for grand on a budget? Consider off-peak times and of course, plan ahead so you can save for any fees that may come up.
