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What Is The December Birthstone: A Guide To Blue Topaz

December’s birthstone, blue topaz, is cool, chic, and a perfect way to light up the holiday season…and every day after! This gemstone is as meaningful as it is beautiful, and versatile too.

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Read on to learn everything from its symbolism to how to style it and get yours today. Because whether or not you were born in December, you’re gonna want one of these gorgeous gemstone pieces.

What Is December’s Birthstone?

December, similar to other months of the year, actually has multiple birthstones. However, the most popular, or at least our favorite, is blue topaz. This beautiful gemstone is made up of aluminum and fluorine and known for its beautiful blue hues.

The Symbolism and Meaning of Topaz

Similar to other birthstones and gemstones, blue topaz is brimming with beautiful symbolism. Originally thought to bring protection, this gemstone is now also thought to bring love and affection and is often given as a symbol of one’s love.

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Unique to blue topaz, it is also associated with the fourth wedding anniversary. But it doesn’t stop here, blue topaz is also thought to help with insomnia, indigestion, and in ancient times failing, eyesight.

Have you lost your creative edge or motivation? Well, many believe blue topaz can help with this too!

What Color is the December Birthstone?

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Blue topaz is, you guessed it, blue. This birthstone comes in shades from light blue to dark, and is commonly sold in three different shades known as London blue, Swiss blue, and sky blue, with the first two being the most popular.

This gemstone is incredibly rare and is frequently created by heating a topaz stone in its natural, colorless state, and using trace elements to give it that beautiful blue hue.

A Brief History of the December Birthstone

December’s birthstone can be found throughout history. Multiple ancient civilizations prized blue topaz for its protective properties, including the Aztecs and ancient Egyptians, who thought the gemstone could help prevent injuries and other illnesses.

Understanding Topaz’s Sensitivity and Fragility

Moh Scale

The December birthstone is quite durable, ranking 8 on the Mohs Scale of Hardness. This durability makes it a great choice for jewelry, particularly jewelry you wear on a frequent basis. However, blue topaz is hard yet brittle, and some color variations like London blue are more easily scratched, so you should still be careful.

Practical Tips for Cleaning and Preserving Topaz Jewelry

Blue topaz is hard yet sensitive, so it is important to care for it and clean it properly. Follow these tips below to keep your December birthstone pieces shining all year long.

  • Store it separately from other pieces in original, soft, & protective packaging
  • Store it away from strong sunlight & high temperatures
  • Avoid using harsh cleaners
  • Wash in warm, soapy water
  • Clean gentle with a soft bristle brush
  • Dry with a soft, lint-free cloth

What Are the Other December Birthstones?

December is unique when it comes to birthstones because it has so many! While blue topaz may be your favorite (it’s certainly ours!), there are others to choose from including blue zircon, tanzanite, and turquoise.

Blue Zircon

First of all, blue zircon is not cubic zirconia, despite the similarities in their names. Blue zircon is one of the oldest gemstones ever discovered. The sparkle and shine of blue zircon have been compared to that of diamonds.

This gemstone is also available in multiple colors, but it is the blue variety that is a birthstone for December. This gemstone is thought to bring good luck and positivity.

Tanzanite

Tanzanite became a birthstone for December in 2002 after being discovered decades earlier in Tanzania. This gemstone is named for the country where it was first found and is increasingly popular in jewelry today. It is associated with tranquility and compassion.

Turquoise

Deriving its name from the French word for Turkish, because French traders purchased the stone from Turkish traders, this gemstone is on the softer side, rating a 5-6 on the Mohs hardness scale. This gemstone is thought to bring good luck, friendship, and patience, and was even used in ancient healing practices.

FAQs

What is the actual birthstone for December? 

December has four birthstones. Blue topaz, blue zircon, tanzanite, and turquoise. It is one of the few months to have so many birthstones.

What is the origin of blue topaz? 

Blue topaz was discovered in the 1960s in Brazil by British explorer Max Ostro.

Why does December have four birthstones?

It is not known exactly why December has so many birthstones. It is most commonly believed that it was to add more affordable options.

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Jewelry Metal Types 101: A Buying Guide

There is so much more than what meets the eye when it comes to jewelry metal types! Beyond color and weight, there are many factors to consider when shopping for new jewelry. Keep reading to learn all about different metal types and their characteristics.

Buying Different Metal Types

Different metals come with different colors, strengths, durabilities, benefits, and downsides. Before making a big purchase, it’s important to consider all your options to ensure you’re getting the best possible piece for you! Let’s break down the different characteristics to consider when shopping for different metal types.

Color

When looking for new jewelry, understanding the natural colors of metals and how they complement your skin can be very helpful. Certain metals also change color depending on their reaction to other materials and wear. 

Generally speaking, cooler skin tones work best with cooler metals, such as white gold and platinum. Warmer skin tones match well with hues of yellow gold. As always, the best way to determine the right color for you is to try on various pieces and see how they complement your look!

Certain metals also change color depending on their reaction to other materials and wear – so keep this in mind!

Sometimes a piece of jewelry looks great on you, regardless of these guidelines. Wear what makes you feel confident and beautiful!

Related blog post: How To Pick The Right Engagement Ring For Your Skin Tone

Weight

Naturally, different metal types have different densities, which directly influences their weights. When wearing large earrings, for example, you may want to opt for a lighter metal (such as titanium) to make sure you feel comfortable.

Denser metals are also more expensive. This is something to consider when shopping on a budget! 

Ultimately, metal weights have a lot to do with personal preference and comfort levels. The weight of jewelry will affect the way it hangs, feels on the skin, and its overall presence.

Hardness and Durability

Durability is a very important factor when purchasing jewelry that you’ll want to stand the test of time. Metals like platinum are known for their durability and resistance to tarnish and wear. Metals like gold are known for their softness and are often alloyed with metals like copper to give it extra strength (which can be found in 14K or 18K gold). 

Understanding different metals and their strengths will help you pick the right metal for your daily activities and uses. 

Keep reading for a breakdown of each metal type and its durability!

Scratch resistance

If you’re constantly on the run or are prone to bangs and scratches, pay special attention to metals that are more forgiving than others. Some metals, such as the aforementioned platinum, are far more resistant to scratches than metals such as gold. 

If you know, you’ll wear your jewelry daily, think ahead and purchase a scratch-resistant metal. It will save you anxiety in the long run and last you ages!

Hypoallergenic vs Irritant To Skin

Whether you have sensitive skin or not, it’s a good idea to consider a metal’s potential to cause allergic reactions.

Metal TypeHypoallergenicIrritant to Skin
Yellow GoldHypoallergenicPotential Irritant
White GoldNot HypoallergenicPotential Irritant
Rose GoldNot HypoallergenicPotential Irritant
SilverGenerally HypoallergenicPossible Irritant
PlatinumHypoallergenicUsually Not Irritant
TitaniumHypoallergenicUnlikely Irritant
TungstenHypoallergenicRarely Irritant
TantalumHypoallergenicRarely Irritant
Cobalt ChromeNot HypoallergenicCommon Irritant

Important Points:

  • Hypoallergenic metals like platinum, titanium, tungsten, and tantalum are generally less likely to cause skin irritation.
  • Silver is usually hypoallergenic, but it might still cause irritation in some cases.
  • Yellow gold, white gold, and rose gold are not typically hypoallergenic and could irritate skin.
  • Cobalt chrome is a more common irritant and may provoke allergic reactions.

What is Metal Carat?

Not to be confused with the carat weight of a diamond, a metal carat refers to the quantity of pure gold that is found in metal. 

  • 9ct – Is hallmarked with “375” and is made up of 37.5% pure gold. The rest of which is composed of other metal alloys. This durable metal is ideal for everyday wear. 
  • 14ct – is hallmarked with “585” and is made up of 58.5% pure gold. This is the most popular gold due to its relatively high gold content, color, and affordable price tag. 
  • 18ct – is hallmarked with “750” and contains 75% pure gold. This metal displays durability and a rich yellow hue. 18ct gold is ideal for engagement and wedding rings. 
  • 22ct – is hallmarked with “916” and contains 91.5% pure gold. This is the purest form of gold commercially available in jewelry.

Types of Jewelry Metals

Now that we have a general overview of metal characteristics, we can dive deeper into specific metal types and what they offer!

Precious Metals

Yellow Gold

Yellow gold is a historically coveted precious metal known for its warm and rich luster. While its purest form, 24K, is far too malleable for everyday wear, it is commonly alloyed with other metals, such as copper and zinc, to improve its durability. 

Pros: Looks great on most skin tones, offers a timeless and traditional look that never goes out of style
Cons: Soft, not the most contemporary color

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White Gold

White gold is a popular alloy that combines gold with other metals such as palladium or zinc. Doing so gives the metal a luminous white sheen. White gold is often plated with rhodium to enhance its strength and color. 

Pros: Has the look of platinum at a lower cost, has a contemporary look and feel.
Cons: Over time, the rhodium may wear off, requiring maintenance.

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Rose Gold

Rose gold imbues any look with color and warmth. Rose gold is made by mixing pure gold with copper. Similar to yellow gold, rose gold does not require plating and can easily be polished. 

Pros: Looks great on different skin tones.
Cons: Is made with copper, which may cause allergic reactions.

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Platinum

Platinum is one of the most popular jewelry metals out there! Platinum offers both eye-catching beauty and strength that can withstand everyday wear. Platinum will not tarnish from air exposure and can be polished if damaged. Platinum’s positive qualities are reflected in its price, making it one of the more expensive options on the list.

Pros: A durable metal, ideal for everyday wear.
Cons: More expensive than other metals.

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Silver

Silver is another metal option that is both popular, stunning, and affordable. While many different percentages of silver alloys exist, sterling silver is the most common. Due to silver’s malleability. it is not ideal for engagement or wedding rings. Instead, silver is ideal for intricate pieces. Frequent polishing will keep silver looking clean and bright. 

Pros: Affordable option without compromising on beauty.
Cons: Require maintenance due to oxidation.

What Is Hypoallergenic Jewelry?

So what exactly does ‘hypoallergenic’ even mean? Hypoallergenic jewelry is jewelry specifically designed to be less irritating to those with sensitive skin. Such pieces are made from materials known to be softer on the skin. Materials such as titanium, surgical-grade stainless steel, and niobium are all great options.

Hypoallergenic jewelry is often used for body piercings since piercings are highly likely to produce adverse reactions. But gentler metals are also favored by those with nickel allergies, as hypoallergenic jewelry does not contain nickel. In recent years, hypoallergenic jewelry has grown in popularity as more people search for jewelry that looks and feels good on the skin.

A List Of Hypoallergenic Materials

The most common hypoallergenic metals are the following:

  • Gold: Gold is a soft, non-reactive metal that is naturally hypoallergenic and corrosion-resistant.
  • Silver: Silver is a durable metal naturally resistant to corrosion and rust. Thankfully, it is also hypoallergenic.
  • Titanium: Titanium is a strong, lightweight metal highly resistant to corrosion and rust and unlikely to cause an adverse reaction on your skin.
  • Stainless Steel: Stainless steel is a durable, low-maintenance, hypoallergenic metal.
  • Platinum: Platinum is a rare metal that is naturally hypoallergenic and resistant to corrosion and rust.

Alternative Metals

While silver and gold have long held the spotlight in the jewelry world, there are many other metals to choose from. Options such as titanium, ceramic, and stainless steel offer unique aesthetics and functionality that cater to several different needs. 

From their contemporary look to their hypoallergenic or lightweight properties, alternative metals are surely something to look into. In 2023, alternative metals are particularly popular for men’s wedding rings- offering style and comfort for all kinds of grooms.

Titanium

Titanium has recently grown in popularity due to its rich black color and lightweight feel. While titanium is quite durable, it is not heavy or cumbersome to wear. Instead, titanium is a popular metal for men’s wedding rings, offering a contemporary twist and versatility ideal for everyday usage.

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Tantalum

Similar to titanium, tantalum went from traditional uses in technology to being a niche jewelry favorite. Tantalum is incredibly resistant to wear and corrosion, rivaling most traditional metals. Its dark hue offers a contemporary, sleek aesthetic for those looking for a distinct and resilient metal.

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Tungsten

While tungsten may most commonly be associated with industrial uses, it has quickly found its place amongst popular robust jewelry metals. Tungsten offers an almost scratch-proof finish, ensuring longevity and strength.

While tungsten has a weightier feel than similar metals, this can be ideal for those looking for a metal that imbues strength, modernity, and tradition.

Black Tungsten Carbide 6MM Bright Step Band By TRITON

Colbat Chrome

Cobalt chrome is a unique blend of cobalt and chromium that has recently seen a surge in popularity. Known for its radiance that closely mirrors platinum or white gold, cobalt chrome has more than what meets the eye.

This metal stands out due to its durability, scratch resistance, and hypoallergenic properties.

Cobalt Chrome 6.5mm European Comfort Fit Ring

Ceramic

Ceramic has recently emerged as a popular choice for those looking to step a little bit outside the (jewelry) box. Not to be confused with the common ceramics used in pottery, ceramic in jewelry is a high-tech material known for its lightweight, scratch resistance, and luster.

Conclusion

In the ever-expanding and exciting world of jewelry, the number of choices available to you is always growing. From timeless classics like gold and silver to contemporary alternative metals like titanium and tungsten, each material brings forth its unique narrative, characteristics, aesthetics, and benefits. 

Choose the best metal for you and your needs, from functionality to comfort to history. After all, the metals we wear tell a story just as multifaceted and nuanced as the individuals who wear them!

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Can AI Help You Buy An Engagement Ring? Let’s Ask It

Choosing an engagement ring is a big decision that can often feel overwhelming. With so many options to consider – from the cut, clarity, carat, and color of the diamond to the style and material of the band – wouldn’t it be great to have a helpful guide? Enter artificial intelligence (AI), a cutting-edge technology that’s transforming countless industries, including the realm of jewelry.

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AI and Engagement Rings: A Match Made in the Digital World

AI can streamline your engagement ring shopping journey by personalizing the process. Custom AI algorithms consider your preferences, budget, and trending styles, offering curated recommendations based on your input. This technology effectively simulates a personal jeweler experience, ensuring that your choice aligns with your vision and your partner’s tastes.

The real magic lies in how AI customizes your options. By analyzing data you provide, such as your partner’s fashion style, favorite jewelry designs, and lifestyle, AI can suggest rings that best match their personality. This feature reduces guesswork and potential missteps, guiding you toward a ring that symbolizes your unique love story.

Price Point Considerations: AI and Your Budget

While many people associate engagement rings with a hefty price tag, AI can assist in navigating options within your budget. It can analyze hundreds of options across various price ranges, showing you beautiful, quality rings that won’t break the bank.

This ensures that you can focus on the proposal itself, instead of worrying about the cost.

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Keeping Up with Trends: AI and the Latest Engagement Ring Styles

AI doesn’t just focus on individual preferences and price ranges – it also stays updated on the latest trends. It sifts through vast amounts of online data, identifying what’s currently fashionable in the world of engagement rings. If staying on-trend is important to you and your partner, AI can certainly make that easier.

Conclusion: A New Way to Shop for Engagement Rings

The future of engagement ring shopping lies in the application of AI technology. It personalizes the shopping experience, considers your budget, and stays updated on trends, revolutionizing how we shop. So, if you’re daunted by the prospect of finding that perfect ring, remember – there’s an AI out there ready to lend a hand. After all, AI’s mission is to simplify complex processes – and what’s more complex than choosing a symbol of your everlasting love?

So, can AI help you buy an engagement ring? Absolutely! Not only can it help, but it can also transform this potentially stressful task into an exciting journey, illuminating the path to the ring of your dreams.

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What Are The Different Diamond Shapes For Engagement Rings

So many diamond shapes and so little time! But don’t worry, we’re here to finally demystify the diamond shopping experience…

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Picking out your engagement ring is an exciting time. Unfortunately, with so many diamond cuts and shapes to choose from, that excitement can quickly turn into confusion.

With different terminology, lingo, classifications, measurements, and styles, the process can be overwhelming and hard to navigate.

That’s why we’ve created this comprehensive guide to help you find the perfect diamond for your perfect ring. Shopping for a diamond shouldn’t at all be stressful!

In this blog, we’ll cover popular diamond shapes from the classics to the more unique- as well as answer some commonly asked questions! 

What’s the Difference Between Diamond Shapes and Diamond Cuts?

This question is asked all the time- and for good reason!

When reading about diamonds, you’ve probably come across the terms ‘diamond shape’ and ‘diamond cut’ in the same sentence. You may have even thought that the two terms are interchangeable. 

In reality, shape and cut refer to two different things.

Shape refers to a diamond’s overall form, the literal shape that it takes. Examples of this are oval, heart, round, emerald, and princess.

On the other hand, a diamond’s cut strictly refers to the diamond’s symmetry, proportions, and polish. This includes the facets and angles that the cutter produced when shaping the stone. A diamond’s cut has the biggest influence on its ability to reflect light and shine. 

While shape and cut maybe two different features, they work together to create a beautiful and sparkling stone.

What Are The Different Diamond Shapes For Engagement Rings?

Round Diamonds

The round diamond shape is a tried and true classic! Round diamonds, also known as round brilliant diamonds, are the most popular of all diamond shapes.

This particular shape and a high number of facets enables peak light reflection, creating a brilliant shine. It is also a classic and versatile shape that is easy to incorporate into just about any look and ring setting. 

Related post: The Best Engagement Ring For Each Diamond Shape

Cushion Cut Diamonds

A cushion cut diamond is a diamond that has been cut into a rectangular or square shape- but with rounded, soft corners. This pillow-like appearance is where the diamond gets its name!

This type of cut was very popular in the 19th century but has recently seen a resurgence in popularity. Due to their softer and more romantic appearance, cushion cut diamonds can often appear larger than round diamonds of the same carat weight.

The cushion cut is also known for its ability to hide inclusions and imperfections, making it the perfect choice for diamonds with lower-quality grades. 

Oval Diamonds

Oval diamonds are similar to round diamonds. The oval shape, however, appears bigger than a round diamond of the same carat weight. 

The oval shape can also do wonders in creating the illusion of longer and slimmer fingers for the wearer. 

Oval diamonds are great for those who enjoy the look of a round diamond but want something perhaps a little bit more unique. 

Princess Cut Diamonds

Princess cut diamonds are a popular choice for engagement rings due to their elegance and eye-catching allure. 

A princess cut diamond is square or rectangular with pointed corners. This cut is known for its modern look of sharp, clean lines. 

A princess cut diamond has beautiful facets and lines, creating excellent sparkle and shine. 

Emerald Cut Diamonds

An emerald cut diamond is a type of diamond cut into a rectangular shape with angled facets and a flat plane on top of the stone. 

If you’re looking for a diamond with striking clean-cut lines and symmetry, this is the shape for you!

Emerald cut diamonds are known for their elegance and sophisticated appearance. This diamond is a favorite for its unique shape and excellent clarity. While this diamond may be elegant and eye-catching, it is also slightly understated, creating a wonderfully balanced stone.

Pear Shaped Diamonds

Pear shaped diamonds are cut into a pear-like shape, with one rounded end on one side and a pointed end on the other. 

As a combination of both the round cut and the marquise cut, this diamond has the best of both worlds and looks like a perfect teardrop. 

Pear shaped diamonds are ideal for those who want to elongate their fingers while maintaining that brilliant shine. 

Asscher Cut Diamonds

If you’re a fan of vintage styles, an Asscher cut diamond is the diamond shape for you. 

This diamond is cut into a square shape with cropped corners and a unique step-cut pattern on the bottom portion of the stone. Inspired by the Art-Deco movement, this shape is admired for its antique aesthetic. 

If you want a truly timeless engagement ring, check out Asscher cut diamonds. 

Marquise Cut Diamonds

A marquise cut diamond is an elongated oval shape with pointed ends. 

This unique cut is actually known for its remarkable ability to create the illusion of a larger diamond. Because of this, it is one of the most affordable shapes out there! 

Regal and unique, opting for a marquise cut diamond will surely gain you some head turns and curious glances!

Heart Shaped Diamonds

The shape of love! Of course, heart shaped diamonds are a very romantic and sentimental shape for an engagement ring. 

If you’re looking for an engagement ring full of symbolic meaning and a distinctive appearance, this may be your shape. 

With its many facets, sharp points, and quintessential symbolism, this diamond is both a bright and adorable choice. 

How Diamond Shape Affects Price

It’s quite common to equate a higher carat weight with a higher price, but shape, too, has a direct influence on your diamond’s price tag!

While every diamond is beautiful and special, there are a number of factors that may make one shape more expensive than another.

The round shaped diamond, for example, is the most popular shape for engagement rings. Not only does this shape have the highest global demand, it is the most technically difficult shape to cut from a rough diamond.

Generally speaking, the least expensive shapes are the ones that use the largest amount of the original rough diamond. Shapes like this include the: Asscher, emerald, princess, and cushion cut.

Keep this in mind when you discover that two diamonds of the same carat but different shapes have drastically different prices!

FAQs

1. What engagement ring shape is best?

The best engagement ring shape will ultimately depend on your personal preference! Look throughout this guide and read about what makes each shape unique. Once you determine your priorities, find one that checks off all your boxes. Your perfect engagement ring shape is out there!

2. What are the 4Cs of engagement rings?

The 4Cs of engagement rings are Cut, Clarity, Color, and Carat. If you want to learn more about the 4Cs, check out our blog on the topic.

3. How many carats should an engagement ring be?

Some people prefer larger, more impressive diamonds, while others prefer smaller, more delicate stones. It’s really up to you and what you value! It’s always important to remember that carat weight is not the only factor determining its value. 

Conclusion

As we now know, there are so many diamond shapes and cuts, and so many things to consider when shopping! 

Whether you’re looking for something classic and timeless, or something unique and bold, there is certainly a shape out there for you.

Use this guide when you need a quick reminder of what’s what- and before you know it, you’ll have a stunning rock on your finger!

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Necklace Size Chart: How To Find The Best Necklace For You

Necklace Size Chart: How To Find The Best Necklace Length For You

Throwing on a necklace is a simple way to elevate any look. Whether it’s a pendant necklace or a simple chain, there are so many ways to style some shine around your neck. 

But with great style comes great responsibility! First, we have to figure out what length and fit are best. Keep reading to find out how…

Heart necklace

So, you’re in the market for a new necklace but you want to make sure you’re getting the right one. You’ve come to the right place! 

Whether you’re shopping for yourself or getting a gift for someone else, determining your necklace size is an important step. This can be said for both women and men!

In this blog, we’re going to break down how to find the perfect size for your style, measurements, and personal taste. 

Standard Necklace Lengths for Women

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Standard Necklace Lengths For Men

Necklace Size Chart For Men

Factors To Consider When Choosing The Right Necklace For You

Everyone wants their necklace to fit as if it were tailor-made! Consider the following factors when shopping so your jewelry will feel like it was made for you:

Neck size

It might seem obvious, but yes, the width of your neck is the most important measurement to consider when necklace shopping. Same with rings and bracelets, necklaces are not always one-size-fits-all! Make sure you consider how you want your necklace to fit around your neck before you commit.

Keep reading to learn how to measure your neck size and determine your ideal necklace length. 

Height

When shopping for a necklace, you’re probably not thinking about how tall you are- but it may be a good idea to start! 

Generally speaking, the taller you are, the longer your necklace should be.

If your height is below average, longer necklaces may be less complimentary. Oftentimes, long necklaces overwhelm shorter people. 

Similarly, if you are of above-average height, short necklaces might get completely lost. 

We all want to wear a chain that both complements our looks and shows off our beautiful jewelry. 

If you are 5 feet tall or under, look for a necklace that is anywhere from 16 to 20 inches long.

If you are between 5’4 to 5’7, most necklaces of standard length will suit you wonderfully.

And if you are above average height, look for necklaces that are at least 20 inches long. 

Keep in mind that these are all guidelines. If you are 6 feet tall and want to wear a choker, please do so! If you are 5 feet tall and want to wear a necklace that falls to your waist- don’t let anyone stop you!

Wear what makes you feel best. 

Body Type

Just like clothes shopping, you’ll want to consider your body type when shopping for a new necklace.

If you want to accentuate certain features, jewelry has the magical ability to do so!

For example, if you want to accentuate your hips, a long and thin necklace may help. If you want to slim your hips, a thicker and shorter necklace may work better. 

The same can be said for men. If you have broad shoulders, opt for a shorter and thicker chain. If you have narrow shoulders, opt for a chain that is thinner and longer. 

Play around with different lengths of chains and see what works best for you!

Face Shape

Certain necklaces can make a face appear wider, rounder, shorter, or longer. Depending on your own face shape, you are likely to prefer one length to another.

For example, if you have a round face that you would like to appear longer, it’s best to choose a necklace that will emphasize the length of your face. A necklace that is 20’’ to 24’’ long will bring the eye down and effortlessly slim your face.

If you have a square or more angular face, a short necklace will soften your sharp angles while elongating your neck. 

It’s really that simple! 

The Look You Want

When shopping for a new piece of jewelry (especially one that you will want to wear for many years to come), it’s a good idea to determine what look you want to achieve. 

Ask yourself this: Do I want a minimalist, everyday look? Or do I want a necklace for special occasions? 

This will help you figure out whether you want a standard-length necklace that you can simply throw on, a necklace that you can easily layer with other pieces, or one that you’ll save for important events.

Keep your lifestyle in mind, as well! If your chain is very long, it may not be great to wear while keeping active. And if your chain is very short, it may not go with the types of tops you normally wear. 

Once you decide on the look you want (everyday, casual, special, layered, etc.), finding the optimal length will be that much easier!

How To Measure Your Desired Necklace Size

Determining your ideal necklace length is an easy process. Here are the steps to do so:

  1. Wrap a flexible measuring tape around your neck. Keep your finger on the spot where the two points meet. 
  2. Unwrap the tape while keeping your finger on the mark. This is your measurement.
  3. If you want a choker, this measurement will be the perfect length for you. If not, add three inches to your neck measurement. This new measurement will be the minimum length of your desired necklace.

You can follow this method as well:

  1. Wrap the same measuring tape around your neck. This time make the two points meet where you imagine you want your necklace to land. The number you reach is your ideal necklace length!

It’s that easy!

FAQs

Is a 16 or 18 inch necklace better?

Deciding between these two lengths can be tricky. It really depends on your specific measurements and preferences. The 18’’ necklace is the standard for women and is considered a classic go-to. When in doubt, opt for the 18’’. This length is ideal for pendant necklaces as it will land right below the collar of a crew neck t-shirt, making sure it gets seen!

Is an 18 inch necklace short?

Not exactly! While the 18’’ necklace is shorter than alternatives, this length is not likely to sit close to your neck. Generally, the 18’’ necklace will sit just below your collarbone.

Is a 20 inch necklace long?

A 20’’ necklace may be too long for some but perfect for others. If you are on the shorter side, this length may be a touch too long. However, if you are taller, this necklace will be perfect!

To Wrap Up

Changing up your personal style, even slightly, can help you uncover a whole new personality! And trying out different necklace lengths is the perfect way to do so. 

Whether you have a gemstone hanging around your neck or links of gold, there is the perfect length out there for you.

Keep experimenting and playing with different styles and lengths- you’ll look great no matter what.

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Wedding Rings for Women: A Buying Guide

While popping the question, and the engagement ring that goes with it, can get the bulk of the attention, the wedding ring is just as important. A crucial part of the wedding ceremony and a symbol of your everlasting love and commitment, you want to make sure the wedding ring you choose is perfect.

From different delicious metals, sparkling diamonds and gemstones, and numerous styles, choosing the right wedding ring can be overwhelming. That’s where we come in! Read on to find out everything you need to know about getting the perfect wedding ring.

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What Is A Wedding Ring?

So what IS a wedding ring? While the engagement ring is what you wear when you are intended to be married, the wedding ring is what you exchange during the ceremony and what you wear once you are officially married.

What Does A Wedding Ring Symbolize?

A wedding ring marks the love between you and your partner and is a symbol to the world of your commitment to each other that you wear and see everyday.

Your wedding ring is emblematic of your wedding vows, a beautiful reminder of the meaningful words you said to your partner on that special day.

The Difference Between A Wedding Ring And a Wedding Band

This one is easy, there isn’t one! Wedding rings and wedding bands are the same things. The terms are used interchangeably and both refer to the ring you exchange during your wedding ceremony to symbolize your commitment to your partner.

Wedding Rings For Women

Simple wedding rings

Many people prefer a simple wedding ring for women, such as a plain gold band style or a dainty wedding ring. This can be due to religious customs, personal style, or simply to match their engagement ring. This classic, clean style is also great if you have smaller hands.

Diamond Wedding Rings

A diamond wedding ring is the perfect way to increase the sparkle of your engagement ring and show off your personal style. Eternity rings are a great way to go if you love endless sparkle!

Just as the name says, eternity rings offer eternal shine through diamonds that go all the way around the band, giving you the ultimate bling from every angle.

If you opted out of an engagement ring or opted for a simpler engagement ring, then a diamond wedding ring is the perfect opportunity to add bling to your symbol of love.

Gemstone Wedding Rings

Gemstones are a great way to add sparkle and shine to your wedding ring while also getting a burst of color. Choose your favorite color, your birthstone, or maybe the stone of the month you got married in; whichever gemstones you choose, these are a great way to showcase your personal style.

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Simple Engagement And Wedding Ring Combinations

Simply sparkling, if you sport a channel set or pavé engagement ring, a diamond wedding ring will seamlessly and flawlessly add the perfect amount of dazzle.

Prefer a more traditional look? Pair a wonderfully minimalist solitaire with a clean, cool wedding ring like these two, which were simply made for each other…just like you and your love.

No matter which style you prefer, James Allen has the matching set for you. Let us take the guesswork out of it!

Popular Metals Used In Wedding Rings

The choices when it comes to wedding rings for women are available in platinum, yellow gold, white gold, and of course, rose gold.

Platinum

Platinum is popular because it is strong, pure, and rare. It is also hypoallergenic, so it is a great choice for anyone with allergies or skin sensitivities. And while platinum carries a higher price point, it wears well over time, so it is a good investment.

White Gold

If you love the look of platinum but prefer a lower price point, or simply prefer to be adorned in gold, then white gold is the metal for you.

Yellow Gold & Rose Gold

Love gold but want some color in your band? Go for classic yellow gold! Want color but prefer something with a bit more romance? Rose gold is the perfect choice. Not sure if platinum or white gold is for you? Find out here!

Just like engagement rings, metals for wedding rings vary in popularity, and many factors must be considered. Make sure to take the following into consideration when choosing the metal for your wedding ring:

  • Matching to your engagement ring
  • Matching to your partner’s ring
  • Personal style
  • Budget
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How to Wear Your Wedding Ring

Many cultures see women wearing their wedding ring on the ring finger, on the left hand. This originated in ancient Greece with the belief that a vein there that leads to the heart is the vein of love. However, in other cultures, women wear the wedding ring on the ring finger on the right hand.

Still, others wear it on either hand, but not on any particular finger. Ultimately, there are no hard and fast rules for this. Where you wear your wedding ring is entirely up to you.

Should You Get Matching Wedding Rings?

Once again, this is entirely personal to you and your partner. You may opt for a more simple, classic wedding ring while your partner may prefer something more alternative and modern. Or perhaps you want a ring that perfectly matches your engagement ring, while your partner wants a style all their own. 

Many couples now also shop for both engagement and wedding rings together. This can allow you to match your wedding rings to your engagement ring and each other. Matching wedding rings can be a beautiful way to symbolize your commitment, but don’t forget this is a ring you will wear every day.

So whether you match it to your partner’s ring, your engagement ring, or showcase your individual style, make sure it is a ring you love.

How To Find Your Wedding Ring Size

Here are a few easy ways you can find your wedding ring size:

  • Professional Jeweler: Visit a reputable jeweler and have them professionally measure your ring size.
  • Ring Sizing Kit: Use a ring sizing kit, available online or in jewelry stores, which provides a range of ring sizers for accurate measurement.
  • Existing Rings: If a ring fits well, place it on a ring sizing chart to determine the size.
  • Finger Measurement: Wrap a strip of paper or string around the intended finger and mark where it overlaps, then measure the length in millimeters.
  • Online Ring Sizing Tools: Many jewelry websites offer online tools to help you measure your ring size accurately at home.
  • Ring Size Chart Conversion: Convert the measured circumference or diameter into a ring size using a ring size conversion chart.

Simply click here to order your free James Allen ring sizer directly to your home. And hey, don’t worry! Even if you still get it wrong, James Allen will resize your ring once for free within one year of your purchase.

How Much Should Your Wedding Ring Cost?

Just like how much you should spend on an engagement ring, the amount you spend on your wedding ring is very personal. If you prefer a classic, plain metal band, then your costs will be lower. However, if your style is a blinged out eternity ring, then you will need to budget a bit more for all those dazzling diamonds.

Whether you choose to start with a classic and move to sparkle for an anniversary, there is no should here. The amount you spend will be related to your budget and style.

FAQs

Who buys the man’s wedding ring? 

Traditionally, the bride buys her groom’s wedding ring, and he buys his bride’s wedding ring. However, more and more couples are splitting these costs and avoiding the whole you buy him and he buys yours. Other couples make this a family affair. Maybe your family will buy your future husband his ring. Like so many things, who pays for the ring is a personal decision.

Can a woman just wear a wedding ring? 

Of course! You can wear whatever you want! And in fact, many women are hopping on this trend. Go for a glorious anniversary or eternity ring to get a wedding ring with all the bling.

Which hand do you wear my wedding ring on? 

Traditionally, many wear their wedding ring on the ring finger on their left hand, the same as their engagement ring. However, some cultures wear the wedding ring on the right hand, separate from the engagement ring. Where you choose to wear your wedding ring is entirely up to you. Just think about it before, so you are sure to get the right size.

Do you still wear your engagement ring after you get married? 

Most people wear their engagement ring together with their wedding ring. This is why so many women match their wedding ring to their engagement ring, even picking them out at the same time to ensure continuity in style. However, this is totally your decision. If you want to save your engagement ring for only special occasions, then you do you boo!

Conclusion

Buying a wedding ring can be a daunting process. Luckily James Allen is here to take the guesswork out of it. Whatever your style and budget, we have the ring for you! Choose your metal, choose your look, check your size, and rock a ring that shines as bright as you!

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Eternity Rings vs. Anniversary Rings: What’s The Difference?

Jewelry that is given in the name of love always has extra sparkle. Eternity rings and anniversary rings definitely fall into this category. Symbolic of life-changing moments and epic love, these diamonds are not just your best friend but remind you of your best friend.

Eternity Rings vs. Anniversary Rings

Eternity Rings vs. Anniversary Rings: What’s The Difference?

While similarly popular, eternity rings and anniversary rings are different in both look and purpose. From the number of stones to the style of the band and the dates they are given, we explain the differences and clear up which ring you should buy and when.

Eternity rings are characterized by a band of endless diamonds, while anniversary rings feature a row of diamonds on the upper half of the band. Both consistently feature diamonds, which is not necessarily the case for wedding rings.

What Is An Eternity Ring?

Eternity rings are characterized by a band of uninterrupted diamonds. That means the diamonds go all the way around the band with no interruption.

They are available in a variety of diamond shapes and sizes, as well as different metal types. Eternity rings have come to be given on very special occasions, and have become a popular wedding rings trend.

When Should You Buy Or Gift An Eternity Ring?

Eternity rings are given on birthdays, landmark anniversaries (such as at the five, ten, and twenty-year marks), or even graduation!

14K White Gold Low Dome Basket Lab-Created Diamond Eternity Ring (2 CTW F-G / VS2-SI1)

What Do Eternity Rings Symbolize?

The seemingly never-ending diamonds symbolize your never-ending love.

These diamonds are your pledge to your partner that you will love them beyond forever! Making this piece of jewelry a truly sentimental piece to gift to your loved one or buy as a wedding ring.

How To Wear An Eternity Ring

While there are no hard and fast rules, eternity rings are often worn next to the engagement ring and wedding ring sitting on the ring finger on your left hand.

When choosing an eternity ring, you want to keep in mind the style of the engagement and wedding rings.

There are also daintier eternity rings perfect for layering with other stackable rings.

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If you like a consistent look, then you’ll want to stick to the same diamond shape. So, if your engagement ring features an Asscher cut diamond, you’ll want to stick with that and choose an Asscher cut eternity ring.

Whatever style you choose, your eternity ring will certainly enhance the radiance not just of your ring finger, but of your whole hand!

14K White Gold Asscher Cut Diamond Eternity Ring (4 CTW H-I / SI1-SI2)

14K White Gold Petite Pavé Cathedral Engagement Ring

Pro Tip: When choosing your eternity ring KNOW YOUR SIZE! Eternity rings are VERY hard to resize because the entire band is covered in diamonds. Often, it simply isn’t possible.

If the ring is a surprise, click here to get tips and tricks to get your partner’s ring size. Measure their finger in their sleep if you have to! We promise it is easier than trying to resize an eternity ring.

What Is An Anniversary Ring?

Anniversary rings are often given on your wedding anniversary and are meant to enhance your wedding ring. They feature diamonds with a variety of settings, along with half the band, which is available in multiple metals. The metal of an anniversary ring is also chosen to complement an existing wedding band.

When Should You Buy Or Gift An Anniversary Ring?

Rings are a VERY popular choice for an anniversary gift. Traditionally, gold is the gift for your first wedding anniversary, so for this event, many couples will choose a white or yellow gold band as seen below:

14K White Gold Seven Stone Emerald Cut Diamond Ring (1.00 CTW - H-I / SI1-SI2)

14K Yellow Gold Seven Stone Cushion Shape Diamond Ring (1.50 CTW - H-I / SI1-SI2)

Whether choosing a five, seven, or nine stone option, you can’t go wrong with an anniversary ring. Enough diamonds for those who want to look ballin’ but not so much for those who prefer a quieter glam.

What Do Anniversary Rings Symbolize?

Anniversary rings, often given to commemorate milestone years in a marriage or relationship, symbolize the enduring love, commitment, and shared experiences between partners. These rings are a meaningful reminder of a couple’s journey and their continued devotion to one another.

How To Wear An Anniversary Ring

So, if your engagement ring and wedding ring are on your ring finger on your left hand, where do you wear your anniversary ring? Literally, any finger you want! One of the beauties of an anniversary ring is that there is no “traditional” finger to wear them on, so choose any finger you like!

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Many people do choose to wear their anniversary ring on the ring finger on their right hand (the finger next to your pinky). This allows the ring to compliment your engagement, eternity, and wedding rings, but also stand out on its own.

Which Ring Is Right For You?

Eternity Rings Anniversary Rings
Diamonds All Around The BandDiamonds On Top Half Of The Band
VERY Difficult To ResizePopular For Wedding Anniversaries
Great For Any Special OccasionAvailable In Five, Seven, Or Nine Stones
Symbolize Unending LoveSymbolize Continued Commitment

FAQs

Can I customize the design of eternity and anniversary rings?

Yes, both types of rings can be customized based on metal choice, gemstone selection, and design preferences. Many jewelers and online jewelers offer customization options.

Can men wear eternity or anniversary rings?

Why not? While these rings are often associated with women, men can also wear them if it suits their personal style.

How do I choose between an eternity ring and an anniversary ring?

The best way to choose is to look at your partner’s style and also the symbolism you want to convey with your gift.

What is the main difference between eternity rings and anniversary rings? Eternity rings are adorned with a continuous band of identical gemstones, symbolizing never-ending love. Anniversary rings, on the other hand, can feature a variety of designs and gem arrangements, often marking specific years of marriage or milestones.

What is the main difference between eternity rings and anniversary rings?

Eternity rings are typically adorned with a continuous band of identical gemstones, symbolizing never-ending love. Anniversary rings, on the other hand, can feature a variety of designs and gem arrangements, often marking specific years of marriage or milestones.

Let’s Sum It Up

Eternity and anniversary rings are a gorgeous way to express your love for your partner. Something they can always wear that will always be in style. These rings tell your partner how special they are without you even having to utter the words.

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