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How To Wear A Wedding Ring: The Must-Read Guide

In the world of how to wear wedding rings and engagement rings, there are no hard-and-fast rules. Even the most “universal” traditions, as you’ll soon see, are subject to variations. It all depends on the ring wearer’s particular culture and style.

So what should YOU do? Read on to find out.

The Right Way To Wear A Wedding Ring

“What’s the right way to wear my wedding ring?”

With all the traditions and rituals involved in marriage, it’s easy to get lost in the whirlpool of wedding “should”s. And there are a lot of them. But as far as how to wear a wedding ring, where to wear a wedding ring, and what your wedding ring should look like – there is quite a bit of room to express yourself! On the whole, the world of wedding rings is less rigid than that of engagement rings. 

Wedding Ring Pros: you have lots of flexibility in your style choice.

Wedding Ring Cons: you still have to navigate numerous, and possibly conflicting, traditions. 

That’s why we’re here to answer your questions about how to wear a wedding ring.

How to wear a wedding ring - pave lotus wedding ring

#1: What’s the difference between a wedding ring and an engagement ring? 

Though there are a few key design differences, the main thing that sets these two types of rings apart is when they’re given. An engagement ring is typically given during the proposal (from the proposer to the proposee), while wedding rings are exchanged during the marriage ceremony between both partners. And while an engagement ring typically features a prominent center stone, wedding rings don’t have one focal point per se. They feature either rows of smaller stones or simply a clean solitaire band. In this, they’re more like the super-talented backup singer whose role is to gracefully point the attention to the star: your engagement ring.

Yellow Gold Solitaire
Engagement Ring

How to wear a wedding ring - yellow gold solitaire engagement ring

Yellow Gold Tapered
Wedding Ring

How to wear a wedding ring - tapered channel-set wedding ring

In contrast to engagement rings, there are relatively few restrictions on how wedding rings should be worn and how they should look. Even so, navigating the myriad of loose cultural traditions and style possibilities can often be overwhelming. So let’s answer all your most pressing wedding ring questions, one-by-one!

#2: How should my wedding ring look?

Again, the answer is: anyway you’d like! There are very few customs concerning the actual design of a wedding ring. Here is a rundown of the most popular options.

Eternity ring or open ring?

ETERNITY RINGS

In some cultures, it’s a custom to wear circular eternity rings. In this case, the continuity of an eternity ring is considered to represent a couple’s endless love and their everlasting unity.

Prong-Set Diamond
Wedding Ring

How to wear a wedding ring - prong-set wedding ring

Channel-Set Diamond
Wedding Ring

How to wear a wedding ring - yellow gold channel-set wedding ring

However, an eternity ring isn’t for everyone – non-circular rings are also a lovely option. This is particularly the case for anyone whose center stone is elongated – like a marquise, oval, or pear – and prevents the engagement ring from sitting flush with a round wedding ring. Two excellent alternatives are custom-curved rings, or open rings.

CURVED WEDDING RINGS

If your engagement ring has a distinct shape, your wedding ring can curve to accommodate your center stone. This gives your wedding set a unique interlocking quality. As an added bonus, the curved wedding rings’ complementary shapes reduce friction on your skin by preventing unnecessary slippage.

Pear Tiara
Engagement Ring

How to wear a wedding ring - pear tiara engagement ring

Curved Tiara
Wedding Ring

How to wear a wedding ring - curved tiara wedding ring

Flower Halo
Engagement Ring

How to wear a wedding ring - flower halo engagement ring

Curved Solitaire
Wedding Ring

How to wear a wedding ring - curved solitaire wedding ring

OPEN WEDDING RINGS

Or, you can choose to wear an open ring. Though less common, open wedding rings are gaining popularity. These unique pieces complement many wearers’ unique styles, and they go beautifully with an elongated center stone.

Open Bezel
Wedding Ring

How to wear a wedding ring - open bezel-set wedding ring

Open Marquise
Wedding Ring

How to wear a wedding ring - open marquise diamond wedding ring

Stones or classic?

In Judaism, the wedding ring is traditionally an unadorned, simple band that’s free of engravings or precious stones. In other cultures, there are no specific customs regarding wedding ring decoration. Diamonds? Yes. Gemstones? Yes. Classic? Yes.

GEMSTONES

The beauty of gemstone wedding rings is the huge selection! Sapphires, rubies, pearls, emeralds…it’s a positive smorgasbord of sparkle. You can always choose a particular stone simply for its beauty, but you can also embrace certain stones’ meanings. For instance, you may inlay your wedding rings with your respective birthstones, zodiac signs, or stones that are particularly lucky for you.

Diamond and Sapphire
Wedding Ring

How to wear a wedding ring - sapphire and diamond wedding ring

Emerald, Ruby, Sapphire
Wedding Ring

How to wear a wedding ring - rainbow gemstone wedding ring

CLASSIC

Classic wedding rings complement absolutely any engagement ring. The simplicity of a classic metal band directs all the attention to your engagement ring. So if you’re struggling to find a matching wedding ring, or you simply want to highlight your engagement ring, then a classic wedding ring could be the style for you.

White Gold Solitaire
Wedding Ring

How to wear a wedding ring - white gold classic wedding ring

Yellow Gold Solitaire
Wedding Ring

How to wear a wedding ring - yellow gold classic wedding ring

#3: Which hand should I wear my engagement and wedding ring on? 

Which hand, and which finger, on which rings are worn changes radically around the world. Even in Europe, in which rings are almost always worn on the fourth finger – the ring finger – there are at least 3 common ways to wear a wedding set.

On The Right Hand

Catholic and eastern European tradition dictates that the wedding and engagement ring both be worn on the right hand. The engagement ring is removed before the wedding ceremony, and after the wedding ring is slipped on during the ceremony, the engagement ring is replaced on top of it. The custom of wearing the wedding set on the right hand comes from an ancient Roman belief that the left hand was untrustworthy. In fact, the Latin word for “left hand” shares the same root as the modern-day word “sinister.”

On The Left Hand

On the other hand – *chuckle* – the Anglican church started doing things a bit differently following their separation from the Catholic church. By wearing both rings on the left hand, they rang in a new era of reformation by eschewing old “sinister” traditions. And this custom continues in Protestant cultures today, where the wedding ring is placed on the left hand during the wedding ceremony, and then the engagement ring is slipped on after it. Many people enjoy the symbolism of wearing their wedding ring closest to their heart, since it highlights the importance of marriage. 

Since the engagement ring is worn on the left hand after the proposal, many brides make this work by temporarily changing the hand on which they wear their engagement ring; during the wedding, they slip it onto their right hand before returning it to their left, over their new wedding ring.

On Different Hands

However, the engagement ring and wedding ring don’t have to be worn on the same hand. If it’s more your style, you can wear them on opposite hands. Spread the glitter around, as it were. In Spain, for instance, the engagement ring usually goes on the left hand, while the wedding ring usually goes on the right. 

So – there’s no dominating tradition regarding where to wear your wedding ring. It all depends on local tradition, religion, and personal style; not all of your personal traditions may line up. It’s possible that religiously, you prefer to wear your wedding ring on your right hand, but local custom dictates that you wear it on your left. 

In the end, it’s all up to you. However you prefer to wear your wedding ring is the right way to wear it.

#4: How do I match my wedding ring to my engagement ring?

The answer: however you’d like. This is where you have utter freedom to express yourself – there are very few, or no, customs regarding how to match your wedding set. So what’s this mean for you? You have 3 main elements to mix and match: metal, stones, and style

We’ve taken one of our most popular engagement rings, the Petite Pavé, to show you all the ways you can choose a matching wedding ring. 

The Petite Pavé Engagement Ring

How to wear a wedding ring - petite pave engagement ring

Match by Metals

All ring metals look great together! White gold + white gold = pretty. White gold + yellow gold/rose gold = pretty. It all works. You can’t go wrong.

Rose Gold Classic
Wedding Ring

How to wear a wedding ring - rose gold classic wedding ring

Yellow Gold Classic
Wedding Ring 

How to wear a wedding ring - yellow gold classic wedding ring

Match By Stones 

Diamonds are definitely marriage material, but so are gemstones. Don’t be shy to choose a wedding ring with the right stones to make you smile. 

Diamond And Sapphire Arrows
Wedding Ring

How to wear a wedding ring - sapphire wedding ring

Double-Row Pavé
Wedding Ring

How to wear a wedding ring - double row pave wedding ring

Match By Setting Style 

Your pavé engagement ring will look beautiful with either a pavé wedding ring or, say, a channel-set wedding ring.

Half-Pavé Diamond
Wedding Ring

How to wear a wedding ring - half pave diamond wedding ring

Channel-Set Diamond
Wedding Ring

How to wear a wedding ring - channel-set diamond wedding ring

If you’re wondering how to match you and your partner’s wedding rings, click here to get all our James Allen tips and tricks.

#5 What should I do if I can’t wear my wedding ring the “traditional” way?

Remember that tradition is a suggestion.

  • If you can’t wear your wedding ring on the “right” finger, wear it on another one!
  • If you can’t wear it on your hand, slip it onto a chain and wear it as a pendant necklace.
  • If your wedding ring doesn’t fit with your engagement ring, wear them on separate fingers.
  • If you don’t like rings, bracelets can be excellent substitutes.

The bottom line is – it’s your wedding, your marriage, and your ring. You can choose to wear it in whatever way suits you!

Wedding ring styles: our team’s picks! 

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9 Unique Wedding Rings That Make A Statement

How do you make a statement? We’ve curated a lineup of unique wedding rings so you can rock your personal style.

Unique Wedding Rings: white gold, rose gold, and yellow gold wedding rings.

Whether your engagement ring is a classic solitaire or something a bit more glitzy, picking a unique wedding ring will make your wedding set truly one-of-a-kind. Conclusion: you don’t have to settle for a less-than-perfect band.

Haven’t yet found the one? Maybe you’ll find it in one of the unique wedding rings below! 

Women’s Unique Wedding Rings


MYTH:

Women’s wedding rings must have diamonds.

TRUTH:

Gemstone wedding rings are here to stay. 


Emerald and Diamond Wedding Ring

Emerald and Diamond Wedding Ring

Sapphire and Diamond Wedding Ring

Sapphire and Diamond Wedding Ring

MYTH:

Wedding rings have to be simple.

TRUTH:

One look at the unique wedding rings below, and you’ll see that they come in all patterns and shapes.


Crown Diamond Wedding Ring

Crown Diamond Wedding Ring

Leaf Motif Wedding Ring

Leaf Motif Wedding Ring

Arched Wedding Ring

Arched Wedding Ring

Men’s Unique Wedding Bands


MYTH:

Men’s wedding rings have to be gold or platinum.

TRUTH:

Nope. These unique wedding bands also come in tungsten, wood grain, titanium, and even carbon fiber.


Carbon Fiber & Titanium Wedding Ring

Woodgrain & Chrome Wedding Ring


MYTH:

Men’s wedding rings have to be plain.

TRUTH:

Diamonds and gemstones add classic shine to any men’s ring.


Tungsten & Diamond Wedding Ring

Sapphire Channel-Set Wedding Ring

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Wedding Ring Engraving Ideas

Make your day unforgettable with a free wedding ring engraving.

pavé wedding ring engraved with the inscription "finders keepers"

Amidst the hectic, public extravaganza that is your wedding, a meaningful wedding ring engraving gives the person you love a little extra attention. And DYK? You can engrave your wedding ring for free at checkout.

WEDDING RING ENGRAVINGS: WRITTEN IN THE STARS

But out of everything you could say, what’s the right inscription for you? Take a look below at our customers’ words for some amazing wedding ring engraving ideas!

RING ENGRAVING IDEAS:
A CLASSIC PHRASE

Tradition will never get old.

“LOVE IS A VERB”

White Gold Milgrain Wedding Ring

RING ENGRAVING IDEAS: pavé wedding ring engraved with "love is a verb"

“ALWAYS & FOREVER”

White Gold Curved Wedding Ring

RING ENGRAVING IDEAS: pavé wedding ring engraved with "always & forever"

RING ENGRAVING IDEAS:
YOUR SPECIAL DATE

Emphasize the importance of your big day with a custom inscription.

“I FOUND LOVE 3-14-19”

Yellow Gold Pavé Wedding Ring

RING ENGRAVING IDEAS: yellow gold pavé wedding ring engraved with "i found love"

“1.30.19 S&H”

Platinum Sapphire Arrow Wedding Ring

RING ENGRAVING IDEAS: sapphire and diamond wedding ring engraved with wedding date and initials

“-Alfonso 2019-“

Platinum Sunburst Wedding Ring

RING ENGRAVING IDEAS: diamond wedding ring engraved with "Alfonso 2019"

RING ENGRAVING IDEAS:
SHORT & SWEET

With these initial ring inscriptions, you two will know exactly what you mean.

“4EVA MY LTM”

Rose Gold Pavé Edged Wedding Ring

RING ENGRAVING IDEAS: rose gold pavé wedding ring engraved with initials

“ADM”

Yellow Gold Thin Channel-Set Wedding Ring

RING ENGRAVING IDEAS: yellow gold channel-set wedding ring engraved with initials

RING ENGRAVING IDEAS:
GET GOOFY

Why hide it? You’re adorable.

“MY CATLADY2”

White Gold Cushion Pavé Wedding Ring

RING ENGRAVING IDEAS: pavé wedding ring engraved with "my catlady2"

“DO NOT REMOVE”

White Gold Round and Marquise Wedding Ring

RING ENGRAVING IDEAS: wedding ring engraved with "do not remove"

RING ENGRAVING IDEAS:
GET ROMANTIC

Melt each other’s hearts with a sweet ring engraving.

“I KNEW I’D MARRY YOU”

Platinum Matching Filigree Wedding Ring

RING ENGRAVING IDEAS: vintage wedding ring engraved with "i knew i'd marry you"

“Forever and Ever, Amen”

White Gold Engraved Channel-Set Wedding Ring

RING ENGRAVING IDEAS: princess-cut channel-set wedding ring engraved with "forever and ever, amen."

“TO MY WIFE”

White Gold Paisley Surprise Wedding Ring

RING ENGRAVING IDEAS: vintage wedding ring engraved with "to my wife"

RING ENGRAVING IDEAS:
FAVORITE LYRICS

Inscribe the lyrics of the first song you’ll dance to as a married couple!

“COME AWAY WITH ME”

Platinum Pavé Bypass Wedding Ring

RING ENGRAVING IDEAS: offset wedding ring engraved with "come away with me"

“AMORE MIO”

Platinum Wide Channel-Set Wedding Ring

RING ENGRAVING IDEAS: channel-set wedding ring engraved with "amore mio"

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